Hayatlar\u0131m\u0131z boyunca defalarca d\u00fc\u015fer, aldat\u0131l\u0131r, aldan\u0131r bazen aldat\u0131r\u0131z. Kimimiz hayat\u0131n sillesini yer ve bir daha toparlanamaz; kimimiz ise \u00f6yle bir kalkar ki d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yerden, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnle kalkan bamba\u015fka insanlar oluverir. \u0130\u015fte bu ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z her bir ac\u0131 i\u00e7imizde k\u0131r\u0131klar olu\u015fturur. Kimisi k\u0131lcald\u0131r, g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez; kimisi yar\u0131kt\u0131r, uzaktan bak\u0131nca anlars\u0131n\u0131z o insan\u0131n bir ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n oldu\u011funu.<\/p>\n
Hepimizin bildi\u011fi kalp k\u0131r\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 onarmak \u00fczerine bir deyi\u015f vard\u0131r. Barda\u011f\u0131 yere at\u0131nca parampar\u00e7a olur ve yap\u0131\u015ft\u0131rsan\u0131z da izi kal\u0131r misali.<\/p>\n
Bug\u00fcn bu k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131n tamiri \u00fczerine konu\u015faca\u011f\u0131z..<\/p>\n
Bir Japon inan\u0131\u015f\u0131na g\u00f6re k\u0131r\u0131klar birer ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131kt\u0131r. Onlar\u0131 at\u0131p yenisini almak yerine tamir ederek hayata yeniden kazand\u0131rmak isterler fakat bahsetti\u011fimiz tamirat o k\u0131r\u0131\u011f\u0131 gizlemek yerine, k\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 daha da a\u00e7\u0131\u011fa vurmak \u00fczerine yap\u0131l\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her bir k\u0131r\u0131k e\u015fsizdir ve ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7inde bar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131r. K\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f nesneler eritilmi\u015f g\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f ya da alt\u0131n ile bir araya getirilir ve kullanmaya devam edilir ve buna “Kintsugi”<\/strong> sanat\u0131 ad\u0131 verilir.<\/p>\n Peki biz bundan ne \u00f6\u011frenmeliyiz?<\/p>\n Ba\u015fta da bahsetti\u011fim gibi hi\u00e7 birimizin hayat\u0131 kusursuz ve d\u00fcz bir \u00e7izgide ilerlemez. \u00c7\u0131k\u0131\u015flar oldu\u011fu gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fc\u015flerin de oldu\u011funu unutmamal\u0131y\u0131z. \u00d6nemli olan\u0131n d\u00fc\u015fmek<\/a> de\u011fil kalkmak oldu\u011funu sizlere her zaman s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorum ama Kintsugi sanat\u0131 kalkman\u0131n da \u00f6tesini bizlere anlat\u0131yor asl\u0131nda. Her bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fc\u015f hayat\u0131m\u0131zda bir iz b\u0131rak\u0131r. Bunu 404 yap\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 ile yap\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131p hi\u00e7 ya\u015fanmam\u0131\u015f gibi hayat\u0131n\u0131za devam edebilir misiniz? Belki ba\u015fkalar\u0131 sizin yaran\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6rmez ama o iz her zaman sizin i\u00e7in orada olacakt\u0131r. Siz de hi\u00e7 ya\u015fanmam\u0131\u015f varsaymak i\u00e7in bundan bir ders \u00e7\u0131kartmayacaks\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7\u0131kart\u0131rsan\u0131z o yara \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu sizinle ya\u015famaya devam eder diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz.<\/p>\n \u0130\u015fte bu noktada k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131n birer son olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, asl\u0131nda de\u011ferli birer \u00f6\u011freti oldu\u011funu unutmamal\u0131y\u0131z. Hatta bunlar\u0131 alt\u0131n gibi de\u011ferli bir maden ile per\u00e7imleyerek d\u0131\u015far\u0131ya “Ben d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde s\u0131radan bir cam par\u00e7as\u0131yd\u0131m ama alt\u0131nla tamir etti\u011fim ruhum eskisinden daha da de\u011ferli.” mesaj\u0131n\u0131 vermek, ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131n asl\u0131nda birer f\u0131rsat oldu\u011funu vurgulamak i\u00e7in iyi bir \u015fans olabilir.<\/p>\n Unutmay\u0131n ki herkes k\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r lakin herkes alt\u0131nla tamir edilip de\u011ferine de\u011fer katamaz..<\/p>\n \u0130brahim ERTEK\u0130N<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\nBunu payla\u015f:<\/h3>