Bug\u00fcn d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek ba\u015fl\u0131yoruz..<\/p>\n
\u00d6nce g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fczde b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz, yakla\u015fmaya ve ya\u015famaya korktu\u011funuz olaylar\u0131 bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Daha sonras\u0131nda ise ne kadar bo\u015f ve anlams\u0131z kayg\u0131lar g\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda kaybetti\u011finiz zaman\u0131n pi\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn.<\/p>\n
Daha sonra ise tam tersini yani ne kadar bo\u015f ve kolay g\u00f6r\u00fcnen ama asl\u0131nda dipsiz birer kuyu olan, sizi i\u00e7ine \u00e7ekerek ac\u0131 \u00e7ektiren ve \u0131zd\u0131raplar i\u00e7inde b\u0131rakan olaylar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn..<\/p>\n
\u0130\u015fte bunun g\u00f6rsel \u00f6rne\u011fi olan “ames odas\u0131” \u00fczerinden bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 sorgulatmak istiyorum. Ames odas\u0131n\u0131 en az bir kez g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek k\u0131saca hat\u0131rlatmak istiyorum. Odan\u0131n bir ucuna gitti\u011finizde normal boyunuzun 2 kat\u0131, di\u011fer ucuna gitti\u011finizde ise yar\u0131s\u0131 kadar g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz. Oda asl\u0131nda \u00e7apraz konumland\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f lakin normal g\u00f6r\u00fcnmesi \u00fczerine dekore edilmi\u015ftir. G\u00f6z yan\u0131lg\u0131s\u0131 i\u00e7in g\u00fczel bir \u00f6rnektir.<\/p>\n
Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ya da ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz olaylar i\u00e7in erken bir kan\u0131ya varmak asl\u0131nda bu duruma benzer. Sava\u015faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, m\u00fccadele edece\u011finiz \u015fey normalin 2 kat\u0131 zor ya da yar\u0131s\u0131 kadar kolay g\u00f6r\u00fcnebilir. Burada \u00f6nemli olan sizin ona nereden bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r. G\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcn g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc gibi yorumlarsan\u0131z hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 hi\u00e7 gerek duymayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir m\u00fccadeleye sokabilir ya da tersi durumda g\u00f6rmezden gelece\u011finiz ya da basite indirgeyece\u011finiz bir \u015feyle hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u015fokunu ya\u015fayabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n
Bu durumda yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken panik yapmamakt\u0131r. Hepimiz g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne ko\u015fulsuz inan\u0131r\u0131z ama bazen g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz bile bizi kand\u0131rabilir. B\u00f6yle durumlarda en b\u00fcy\u00fck silah\u0131n\u0131z d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimizdir. Onlar\u0131 organize eden ve filtre ederek size g\u00f6steren bilin\u00e7alt\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 y\u00f6netmeyi \u00f6\u011frenmeli ve sizi kand\u0131rmas\u0131na izin vermemelisiniz. Korkular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u00fczerine gidecek kadar cesur, basit g\u00f6rd\u00fcklerinize temkinli yakla\u015facak kadar \u00e7ekimserli\u011finizi korumal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n
\u00d6zetle, ames odas\u0131nda bir \u015feyin boyu sadece odan\u0131n ortas\u0131nda kald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda normal boyutunda g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr. Bir \u015feyin zorlu\u011fu hakk\u0131nda karar verirken \u00f6nyarg\u0131l\u0131 olmamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Zihninizin karar mekanizmas\u0131n\u0131 buna g\u00f6re e\u011fitmeli ve sorunlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 odan\u0131n ortas\u0131na getirerek onun ger\u00e7ek b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ile y\u00fczle\u015fmelisiniz.<\/p>\n
D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek ba\u015flaman\u0131z\u0131 ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek bitirmenizi temenni ederim zira hayat sizden olana bile g\u00fcvenmeyecek kadar yan\u0131lt\u0131c\u0131..<\/p>\n
\u0130brahim ERTEK\u0130N<\/p>\n
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